letting go..

in love, when you are making a decision, did you ever feel when your mind tells you one thing while your heart tells you another? grabe! talagang nakakaloka diba? in your case what would you do follow your heart or your mind?.. iisipin mo nga ba o isapuso mo ang desisyon.. hmmm..

well in times like these, you must learn to detemine whether you have a more passionate heart or a wiser mind or a passionate mind or a wiser heart.. ayan na ikaw na bahala pumili kung ano ka.. then at the moment you know kung ano ka make a crucial decision.. ask ko lang ready ka ba talaga i-accept ang consequences ng naging desicion mo?.. nakakatakot diba? lalo na kung meron kang masasaktan at kung minsan hindi naman umayon sa hinahangad mo..

in this life, we must learn how to accept things.. coz' there are things that are meant to be and there are others better left as it is.. and if we try to manipulate them.. diba lalo lang gumugulo hanggang di mo na alam ano ba talaga ang naging problema at ano ba yun problema.. parang dumami yta at lalong naging complicated lahat.. gets mo ba? yun ba ang gusto mo?..

you have to try, mahirap naman iwan sa ere ang lahat at kalimutan na lang yun mga nangyari diba? don't be afraid sa magiging outcome na mga desicions mo.. you better learn from evry experience.. pagsisisi sa umpisa lang naman yun, pero as time pass by you will realize that it is just part of your life and that's the way how life teaches you to be strong and to be the person you have to be.. diba may mga taong sinaktan ka in some ways, but better be thankful for them kasi they teaches you to be strong and have the guts to face the reality, sa umpisa ka lang naman iiyak..

dont be sad and cry when it is over, rather smile and be happy still because it happened..life is never fair.. sabi nga nila, expect the unexpected..that is why letting go is really the hardest thing you ever have to do in any relationship.. pero minsan diba kung ano pa yung nakakasakit sa atin ay yun pa ang nagpapalakas sa atin.. masakit pero we will still live through it naman.. but the only question is when?

atleast you have the courage to fight the feeling of needs that can put you in more complicated life in the next coming days and you have seen the warning of uncomfortable situation that you might be in if you tried to follow what your unsure heart dictates you.. there is a time for everything.. sabi nga nila may destiny.. that there is someone, somewhere who is really meant just for you.. the right time will tell kung kailan ba talaga siya darating sa buhay mo.. dapat mga ganyang bagay ang iniisip mo.. ang dami kayang lalake sa mundo.. why don't you give them a chance na makilala ka.. baka mamaya siya pala yung love of your life mo.. just think positive.. wag kang loka na 1 taon na iniiyakan mo pa.. mahirap naman na umasa pa sa relasyong wala na talagang patutunguhan.. un bang ikaw lang ang gumagalaw diba? ano ka luka-luka..? if you are in time of hurt and pain.. di naman pang habang buhay yun.. ano ka pinakamalas na tao sa buong mundo.. wala namang gnon.. siguro nag-se-self pity ka?.. alam mo ba yun ang pinaka worst na bagay na gawin mo sa sarili mo.. one thing for sure kapag nag-self pity ka sigurado sa menta hospital ang bagsak mo.. just let go.. and enjoy life.. bahala ka di kita dadalawin sa mental..

basta ang masasabi ko lang for sure, dahil sa mga pinagdaanan mo darating yun time na mahahanap mo rin yung true happiness that you really deserve.. minsan ang pagiging matalino at tuso ay di naman masama.. ito lang kasi yung way na protektahan ang sarili natin sa mga taong gusto tayong saktan at i-put down.. gusto nyo ba un? pero di naman natin sila hahayaan na gawin nila sa atin yun.. kaya naman nating mabuhay ng wala sila at di naman tama na ipagpilitan natin ang ating mga sarili sa taong ayaw naman sa atin..